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The formula of relationships

The formula of relationships

It has been building up, aching, asking to be written, itching and nagging — in short, it is high time this article was written. Whom we choose as a partner, and how. There are plenty of theories describing compatibility. Some go by the stars, some by coffee grounds, some by the I Ching; the Kama Sutra goes by the size of the genitals, and one man I know seriously believes that compatibility should be matched by absolute body weight in kilograms. In short, there are many theories, but we work with one — coherent

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How do we choose a partner?

How do we choose a partner?

Why and what for are we in relationships? What do we need from a partner? How do you choose the object of your infatuation? Always in the same way? Really? Elizabeth Taylor married eight times, and every time it fell apart. So what was she looking for? And what if the criteria for choosing change as a person grows? And if they change, can we ever stop searching for our person? Or, simpler still, find them straight away?

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