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Relationships with other people matter a great deal in the life of everyone, because by nature we are social beings. All of us want relationships that are comfortable and that feel good to us.

Most of the time we treat other people far more kindly and indulgently than we treat ourselves. How to learn to love yourself — you will find out in our article.Why do we struggle so much with self-love? Sometimes it is because we depend too often on the approval of others instead of taking good care of ourselves. How to track down your limiting beliefs, learn to forgive yourself and come to find yourself lovable — you can read about it in this article.

Anyone who fears love fears emotional closeness in a partnership. In this article I will share some tips on what you can do about it.You may recognise this: you meet someone you find interesting, you spend more and more time together and grow closer and closer. But the moment you notice that serious feelings are developing, you panic, you want to end it all, to keep your distance. If that sounds familiar, you may be suffering from philophobia. Anyone who fears

Lately, counselling clients, I keep running into the same revelation more and more often: underneath all our problems there actually lies a need for love. This article is not about "what is love?" but about where love is hidden, how we should really love and how we should accept love. What makes neurotic love different from healthy love?