There are 14 different ways to frame any statement you make. Each of them guides your listener's attention in its own way. The sleight of mouth pattern INTENTION shifts the attention — yours and theirs — to the possible intention or need of the person you are talking to.
Everyone needs a place where they feel safe, secure and welcome. Everyone longs for a place where they can relax and be themselves. Ideally that place is the parental home you grew up in. Where you felt accepted and loved by your parents. From childhood we take in this feeling of being accepted and welcome as a fundamentally positive attitude to life, one that stays with us as adults as well. We have confidence in ourselves and we are able to trust other people. This is also called basic trust.
At the women’s request we are carrying on with MEN’S MANIPULATIONS, now that we have worked through the female examples. At our last meeting we discussed three of them: reminding a woman of her age, and pressing on her perception of her social role as a woman. And manipulation No. 3 — pressing on EMOTIONALITY.
A MAGIC TALE is not so much about Baba Yaga and aliens as it is your most everyday story about everyday things — with a SUGGESTION built into it.
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