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Why it is worth turning others down — and how to say the word “no” properly

Why it is worth turning others down — and how to say the word “no” properly

Many people complain that they find it hard to say the word “no”. They do not want to upset their partner, they agree to everything all the time, and if they do refuse someone, they let themselves be talked into changing their mind, because they feel an unbearable sense of guilt.How often do you answer “yes” to someone's request, even when carrying it out demands a certain “sacrifice” from you? How often do you regret it and get angry with yourself for not being able to say “no”? How often do you say “yes” out of fear of looking bad in

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Slow sex

Slow sex

Sex as a prayer — what a title for a book! That is the name of a book about sex with the subtitle: A guide for men and women to ecstatic loving and deep passion. The foreword to this book by David Deida says: “At least for a while we enter a timeless, spaceless and blissful union with the wondrous Beloved: and what better definition of spiritual liberation could there be?” Oh, how I would like such conclusions to come from everyone, including those who are cut off from a relationship with God and with

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Sex addiction

Sex addiction

It is not easy to talk about a subject like this, but the hardest thing of all is for a person to admit that he or she has a sex addiction. That is why my clients most often come with questions about relationships or about problems in the family. And even after several sessions, once trust has grown between me and the client, very few are the first to speak about problems in their sex life or about the loss of control over their own body. My colleagues know that a client very often hides the real request; I call it "a screen

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