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Anyone who fears love fears emotional closeness in a partnership. In this article I will share some tips on what you can do about it.You may recognise this: you meet someone you find interesting, you spend more and more time together and grow closer and closer. But the moment you notice that serious feelings are developing, you panic, you want to end it all, to keep your distance. If that sounds familiar, you may be suffering from philophobia. Anyone who fears

Lately, counselling clients, I keep running into the same revelation more and more often: underneath all our problems there actually lies a need for love. This article is not about "what is love?" but about where love is hidden, how we should really love and how we should accept love. What makes neurotic love different from healthy love?

Our life is quite unpredictable, and every day we feel a whole range of emotions, some of them positive and some negative in colouring. Today I would like to dwell on anxiety.

It had been a long time since I last meditated. And then I am talking to a woman and she says she wants to take up Buddhism. Anything in the world is fine by me, I think, as long as it does some good. And what it is called — Buddhism, NLP, psychoanalysis, the Distance course — what difference does it make! But I ask her what for. It turns out the thoughts in her head give her no rest, and rest from thoughts is exactly what she wants.