The psychopathic personality type

The psychopathic personality type

An insistent marking out, a proving of their presence in this world — I EXIST! (“I am strong, I can defend myself”). Difficulty in noticing other people's boundaries, inattention and disregard for them (outer as well as inner) -> a regular violation of other people's territory and boundaries. Verbal “exhibitionism”, blunt truth-telling. Excessive control over the situation and everyone in it. An underdeveloped basic trust in people, in the world and in themselves.

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Disharmonious and Conflict-Prone Traits

  1. Failing to observe or respect other people's boundaries, violating them.
  2. A love of truth, blunt truth-telling (“I will tell you the whole truth, even if you do not want to hear it!”). Verbal, emotional “exhibitionism” (telling everything, in every detail).
  3. A quick temper.
  4. Difficulty in perceiving things emotionally, in showing themselves as someone who feels, in expressing empathy.
  5. No restraint in satisfying bodily needs. Hedonism off the scale.
  6. Disrespect for and dislike of traditions, values and rituals that strike them as outdated or unfounded.
  7. Everything at once — they take it by storm.
  8. Excessive pragmatism, ruthlessness, calculation.
  9. A domineering streak. Excessive control over the situation and everyone in it. Disliking limits placed on themselves, they are prone to setting them for others

Harmonious Traits

  1. Strength (in all its aspects), stamina.
  2. Courage, decisiveness, fearlessness, ruthlessness towards themselves.
  3. Physical skill.
  4. Self-reliance.
  5. The ability to overcome obstacles. Determination.
  6. They cool down quickly (as fast as they flare up, they let it go).
  7. A lively, agile, sharp mind. Perceptiveness.
  8. Realism. Pragmatism.
  9. They take responsibility for their own decisions and their consequences with ease.
  10. A sense of humour.
  11. Better than anyone else, they know how to earn themselves a genuinely rich and comfortable life.

Fears, Sources of Displeasure

  1. Weakness, and showing or displaying it.
  2. Betrayal (broken promises, broken agreements).
  3. Restrictions (rigid ones), unfounded prohibitions (physical, moral and ethical).
  4. Inequality, double standards, injustice.
  5. Hypocrisy in other people, lies, falseness, manipulation.
  6. Losing control over the situation and the people involved in it.
  7. Stupidity, superficiality.

Sources of Pleasure

  1. Violating other people's boundaries and territory.
  2. Speaking the whole truth about others and about themselves.
  3. Risk (in order to feel alive — “I exist”).
  4. Exposing “liars” and “hypocrites”.
  5. Building up and proving their strength, physical strength above all.
  6. Sex (as a kind of pleasant sensation)
  7. A large income (“I exist”).
  8. Having no limits on satisfying their bodily and other needs.
  9. Reaching goals they have set themselves, carrying out their decisions and tasks (I decided -> I did it).
  10. Ruthlessness towards themselves and towards others

Careers (Comfortable, Self-Actualizing)

  1. Athletes, fighters (martial arts).
  2. Businessmen (the wealthy kind, from Rublyovka).
  3. Gangsters, bouncers.
  4. The military (special forces, airborne troops).
  5. Scandal-hunting journalists (crossing boundaries, the truth).
  6. Politicians.
  7. Police officers, detectives, criminal investigators.
  8. Stunt performers (risk).

Games – Roles – Manipulations

  1. “You fool! You betrayed me!” “I gave you life, and I will also…” “Then you shall never be…”
  2. “Women / men are not to be trusted, they are all hypocrites!” “You cannot trust anyone!”
  3. “I will tell you the whole truth anyway. You can beat me for it, I will not cry!”
  4. “It is not me you need, it is my money / me as the help!”
  5. “You are part of me. By leaving, you tear a piece out of me.”
  6. “The weak must be destroyed. They deserve no pity.”
  7. “Enough whining and snivelling. Just do it!”

Appearance

A finished, rich, coherent look, comfortable and often expensive clothes; women of this type often reject femininity and romance in the way they dress and present themselves

Motor Activity

Intruding, announcing their presence, “weighty”

Personality Development (Paths)

  1. Perceiving reality emotionally, through feeling
  2. Showing feeling and emotion, expressing empathy, delight, their own feelings.
  3. Granting others, and themselves, the right to feelings, emotions, weakness and the expression of it.
  4. Letting go of excessive control over the situation and the people involved in it.
  5. Developing a sense of other people's boundaries and respect for them.
  6. Understanding that there is no need to prove their presence in this world tirelessly, to everyone and to themselves.
  7. Developing respect for other people's values and traditions, even ones they do not care for themselves.
  8. Understanding that the world will manage and survive even if they do not tell everyone the whole truth, even if they keep quiet.
  9. Developing unconditional trust in the World, in people and in themselves
  10. Developing patience (not only everything at once, but step by step)