Sign up for the online training course with Alexey Melnikov and Dimitri Korenev
‘Meet yourself — this is you!’
Playfully, meditatively and with care we will open up what you are capable of, using the method
Working with the Inner Child and the inner parent through the methods of transactional analysis
What you will get
You will gain
- Emotions and joy
- Desires
- Zest for life
- Dreams and fantasies
- Energy and drive
- RESOURCES!
You will find
- Composure
- Determination
- Organisation
- Discipline
- Goals and achievements
- Structure
You will achieve
- Freedom
- Independence
- Self-support and self-worth
- Closeness and intimacy
- Morality
- Spirituality
WHO will give you all this?
Meet yourself — this is you! You are your:
Which is better: forcing yourself and ‘doing what you are supposed to do’, or making a new decision and allowing yourself a new experience? Exactly — it is better to act out of interest, because there is a world of difference between ‘I have to’ and ‘I want to’, ‘I choose’.
What do you work with on the course? With the life script. A person's life script is made up of particular components, and once you have taken them apart and understood how they work, you can change it. And go from being an also-ran or a loser to a Winner!
That is exactly what we will learn to DO on the ‘Meet yourself — this is you!’ training. We are looking forward to seeing you, it will be fascinating!
The Inner Child
The one who gives you resources and emotions
The Adult
The one who solves your problems
The inner parent
The one who loves you
How does a session work?
Sessions take place in small groups of up to 6 people.
4 hours
Each module takes the form of a 4-hour session on Skype, from anywhere in the world
Distance learning
On the online portal you get everything you need: preparatory material, videos and presentations.
One to one
In the course of the group work you can also work through your own life situation separately.
Theory and practice
You get theoretical knowledge and examples from films, and you work through cases from real life.
The course programme
The course consists of 4 stages. Each stage has 6 modules. A module consists of independent preparation on the basis of the material provided plus 4 hours of group work.
Stage 1: The structure of the personality
- The philosophy of transactional analysis. The portrait of the personality. Exercise ‘Meeting the Inner Child’
- Recognising ego states. Exercise ‘Meeting the inner parent’
- Grof's matrices. Their influence on life and on the script. Exercise ‘Rebirth’
- The natural rights of the personality. Freud's stages of child development. Bowlby's attachment theory. Exercise ‘I explore the World’
- Seven-year cycles of development. Age crises. Prescriptions and injunctions. Exercise ‘The Land of Prohibitions’
- On loving yourself. Life positions. Exercise ‘The Land of Punishments’
Stage 2: Childhood trauma. Defenses
- Strokes. Childhood trauma. Models of the Saboteur. Exercise ‘Pity’
- Defense mechanisms. Rackets and stamps. The racket system. Blame and resentment. Exercise ‘The saboteur part’
- Helplessness. The Karpman triangle. Exercise ‘Helplessness and efficiency’
- The Rescuer. Secondary gains. Exercise ‘The Rescuer’
- Time structuring. Games. Game analysis. The formula of a game. What games are for.
- Where the script comes from. Life positions. Injunctions and decisions. The script formula. Exercise ‘The script’
Stage 3: The script and fairy tales
- The script process. Drivers and the miniscript. Analysis of early childhood recollections after Adler
- The ‘Winner’, ‘Loser’ and ‘Banal’ scripts. Exercise ‘The Hurry Up driver’
- Emotional hooks. Exercise ‘The Be Perfect driver’
- Script patterns. Where the script comes from. Exercise ‘My first fairy tale’
- Reading the script through a fairy tale. Exercise ‘Writing a fairy tale together’
- Script analysis. Exercise ‘Rewriting the fairy tale’
Stage 4: Hamartic scripts.
- Hamartic scripts. Escape hatches
- The ‘No Love’ life script. The laws of the stroke economy
- The ‘No Joy’ life script. The paradoxes of pleasure
- The ‘No Mind’ life script and discounting. ‘Looking for death’
- The banal life script. The discount matrix. Ways out of depression
- The happy life script. Script analysis. Redecision therapy
Certification
Participants receive a certificate from the Research Institute of Social Psychology and the Psychology of Personality Development, Moscow
For a single stage
On completing a stage, participants are awarded a certificate confirming a module of 36 academic hours.
The stage certificate is only issued once all 6 modules have been completed.
For the whole course
On completing the course, participants are awarded a certificate confirming a course of 144 academic hours
and the right to use the method in their own counselling and psychotherapeutic work.
The course certificate is only issued once all 4 stages have been completed.
About the trainers
Alexey Leonidovich Melnikov
- More than 30 graduates
- 20 years of therapeutic experience
- 9 out of 10 participants change their lives for the better
- Full member of the OPPL (the All-Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League)
- Teaches at the NII SPiPRL Research Institute
- Teaches at the Online Institute of Psychotherapy (B. Novoderzhkin)
- Organiser and host of the UPP Laboratory of Counselling and Supervision
- Host of the online course ‘The fundamentals of psychological counselling’
Dimitri Korenev
- Teaches the courses of the NII SPiPRL Research Institute in Austria
- Counsellor, 42, a father and a family man)))
- Organiser of the Vienna psychology group ‘Freud's Legacy’.
- 20 years of experience in international companies in expert and management positions
- A combination of training in psychology with training in economics, law and engineering.
Schedule
Changing yourself and taking in new skills takes time. You will have that time.
The next course starts as soon as enough participants have signed up.
1
year is how long the course lasts.
The course is divided into 4 stages.
3
months is how long one stage lasts
The break between stages is 1.5 months
6
sessions in one stage
Sessions take place once a week.
4
hours is how long one session lasts
+ 2 academic hours of preparation
Price
You can pay for the whole course at once or pay for each module separately.
Missed modules are made up separately - you will not miss anything!
Payment is accepted before the module begins!
Per hour
500 ₽
That is what you pay for one hour of changing yourself
Per module
3.000 ₽
4 hours of individual and group counselling
Learning material
Per stage
18.000 ₽
36 academic hours
24 hours of individual and group counselling
What participants say
The course definitely helped: in 90% of cases I have zero emotional reaction to other people trying to get at me, manipulate me or hurt me.
I still catch the internal dialogues in myself and recognise my parents' turns of phrase. As a result, I behave more confidently. I think three times before I open my mouth to say something to my children or my grandson. I know what else I need to work on and how.
It would be good to organise something like a follow-up programme after the course, to keep clients on the right track and to give explanations and repeat meditations.
This subject is a real source of strength for clients: it gives them the chance to learn to rely on themselves and to find the sources for meeting their needs inside themselves, it opens up a resource. External support mattered here and was needed - and the course gave it.
Thanks to the course I began to understand how I live! The rose-tinted glasses came off. I began to see what the consequences will be and where I could end up - these are very hard moments, not easy ones.
I learned to admit that I am "not perfect", and I came to understand that other people can make mistakes too - and that is normal! Hence a much easier attitude to my children's mistakes!
Professionally, I learned to understand the client better and to see the parental messages that get in their way.
Self-confidence; the anxiety has almost gone; a wish to stand up for my rights and to take care of myself; the urge to rescue everyone, to chase after people and inflict good on them has gone. All in all, I have stopped giving a damn and I like it.
The most important discovery for me was conscious self-support. That is where I started to notice myself, and to notice how I am changing even outwardly. My expressions, my movements, my intonation.
And here it dawned on me, with love and acceptance towards my parents, that they simply could not have done it any other way. And with love for myself - how good it is that I did something good for myself. My priorities in relationships with men changed, and so did the type of man I am drawn to.
After that my boundaries became clear to me, and I learned to allow myself not to move them without real need. It saves so much energy and time straight away that life actually feels fuller!!
For me this course was a discovery of who I am, and it gave me answers about how to become myself after all.
It gave me the system, the foundation on which I can rebuild the structure of my personality, come to love myself and become more whole and more harmonious in every area of life.
And thanks to these changes it is already easy and quick to achieve anything you could wish for.
I have finally got out of codependent relationships! And not only in my private life, but at work with my boss as well.
I am also very grateful for such serious and sustained work through my childhood. Especially the situations with my father, which sat very deep and were very painful.
Thanks to this course my life has finally started to change in a way it never did before. And I know how and in which direction to move on.
This course allowed me, already as a grown man, to separate from my mother and to become someone who can follow his own needs and say ‘No’.
Once you stop being afraid of ‘losing the parental figure’, you start talking as an equal with your managers at work, with the audience on social media and at events, with clients, and with your wife at home. In other words, the Child and Parent course opens up your potential in your private life, at work and in your personal development.
The easiest thing to "tell about" is my relationship with my mother: by the end of the course I was noticeably less irritated, because it became easier to see my mother from an OK position. My relationships with my family have improved.
On the whole I feel calmer and more confident. I trust myself where I would not have trusted myself before, I am bolder about making mistakes and taking risks, and about making decisions.
I know better what I want and what I do not want. And I accept the desires of mine that are "unfashionable". It is much easier to take care of myself without feeling guilty. And I have started doing it more regularly.
